The dynamics of leading a life has
definitely changed overtime. Today, we focus more on being
pretentious rather than being someone who we actually are. “You are
not an asshole, but you are trying so hard to be one”. For those of
who have watched 'The Social Network', they know that this line is a
very integral part of the entire movie. But very few of us can
actually co-relate to the core meaning associated with this fancy
sounding urban metaphorical line.
As a young average middle class
student in Delhi you come across various class of students here. The
issue with any middle class guy is that he can mingle very well with
all section of the crowd. Be it the most rural population or the
elite mall savvy crowd. He can blend with just anyone. You can
pretend to be someone who is sophisticated as clock dial but at the
same time you can be clear as crystal. But what happens with this is
that you lose out with an original you, and you tend to become
someone who you actually pretend. Now the issue is not with
pretension; the issue arises when you pretend to be the two sides of
a same coin.
This is just one perspective. In
this so called #Insta generation, your social life is something that
defines you. A good display picture, handful of Check-ins at
so-called-cool places, and wall posts on each others profile. Is that
what marks your personality? Unfortunately so, yes. Irrespective how
big a fool you are, how big a bustard you are. You pretend to be
someone very different and people like you for it. And the surprising
thing is that we start believing in a life which we actually pretend.
Deep down in your heart you know you are an ass, but you convince
yourself that I am the best and hence people like me. That's like
being an intern in a media house and do nothing and just be an
observer and yet take claim for anything awesome the media house
does. But in practically, you were just pretending to be a part of
the organization and that's what you are doing in life.
Being pretentious sucks out
emotions from you. You maybe a be a very egoistic volatile guy. But
just for the sake of world you pretend to be very humble and down to
earth. Because you know being such makes you a saint in front of
people and who hates that? Hence every time someone says something to
you, you subside your ego and pretend to be normal. You become use to
taking shit and there comes a point where you stop reacting to
things. You start thinking that what you pretend to be is actually
what you are. But then, there is a real you. And every time time you
introspect you realize something is burning deep under and the heat
can only be felt by you.
Leading a pretentious life is not
an easy task. But doing so not actually a social obligation but
actually a necessity. Some make their way out of it while other burn
their soul. This is probably a phase which everyone, at some point or
the other faces but only a few get back to their real self. We live
in a web, real or virtual.
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